A co-op.care product

If you couldn't speak for yourself,
what would you want?

Sage walks you — or someone you love — through it. Not a form, a conversation. Your answers become a clear values summary and a named proxy your care team can actually use.

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70%
of adults have no advance directive
1 in 3
adults have discussed end-of-life wishes with family
Less
family conflict and distress when a care plan exists — research consistently shows this

Statistics drawn from CDC, AARP, and published advance care planning research. Individual outcomes vary.

The same record serves whoever holds it.

CareGoals captures what matters to a person and who speaks for them — then carries it, intact, to the moment it's needed. Whether that's for you, for someone you love, or for the work of standing beside a person at the end of a life.

For yourself

Say it once, while it's easy.

Your values, your proxy, your “what would I want” — in your own words, ready long before anyone needs them. Not a form you dread. A conversation you can actually finish.

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For someone you love

Carry their voice.

Build the plan and the circle for a parent or partner who shouldn’t have to fight to be heard. When the 3 a.m. call comes, you’re not guessing — you know what they told you mattered.

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For the work · doulas & care guides

The record the work has been missing.

End-of-life doulas hold presence that no code pays for, and a calling with no system behind it. CareGoals is the portable record you build with the person — capture their values, carry them as things change, and stand for them at the bedside as a neutral voice. The proxy decides; you make the person present in their own decision.

How co-op.care employs the work →

CareGoals builds a values summary and a designated proxy — the legal documents themselves are formalized with a clinician or attorney. It supports the conversation; it isn’t itself a binding directive.

What matters most to you?

Tap the few things you'd most want the people who love you to understand. There are no wrong answers — this is just a beginning, and it stays private.

Pick up to three. They'll order themselves as you choose.

Your starting point

That's the seed of a conversation. In about 20 minutes, Sage helps you put words to why these matter — and turns them into something your family and doctors can actually understand.

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What it helps with

Three things, done once, that matter forever

01

Articulate your values

What matters most to you in daily life? What makes a good day? What would you never want to lose? Sage asks the questions that are hard to ask yourself.

02

Document care preferences

Your answers become a readable care summary — not buried in legal language. Medical preferences, daily life preferences, and the person you trust to speak for you.

03

Share with family and providers

Download a one-page summary to bring to your doctor. Share access with the family members you choose. Update it whenever your thinking changes.

How it works

Three steps, about 20 minutes

1

Sage interviews you — not a form, a conversation

Your AI guide asks about what matters most to you, who you trust, and what you’d want if you couldn’t speak for yourself. There are no wrong answers. Most people finish in one session, about 20 minutes.

2

Write — your answers become a care summary

Your values, preferences, and proxy designation are organized into a readable document. You review and edit before anything is finalized.

3

Share — with the people who need it

Print a one-page summary for your next doctor visit. Share access with family members. If you need formal legal documents — a POLST, a power of attorney — a provider or attorney can help you formalize those next.

What advance care planning actually covers

Healthcare Proxy

Who speaks for you

Designates the person authorized to make medical decisions on your behalf when you cannot. Without one, hospitals default to next-of-kin in a legally determined order — which may not match your wishes.

Living Will

What treatment you want

Documents your preferences about specific medical interventions — ventilators, feeding tubes, resuscitation, dialysis — if you are terminally ill or permanently unconscious. Your values on paper, not your family's interpretation of them.

POLST / MOLST

For active medical care

A Physician Orders for Life-Sustaining Treatment is a medical order — not just a statement of wishes — used when someone is seriously ill. It travels with the patient and guides emergency responders. Completed with and signed by a physician.

Values Summary

The human context

What legal documents miss: what matters to you, what a good day looks like, who you are as a person. CareGoals starts here. This context helps your proxy make decisions that feel right, not just legal.

CareGoals helps you build the values summary and proxy designation. A licensed attorney can formalize the legal documents; a physician can complete a POLST when clinically indicated.

2:47 AM

Your mother is in the ICU.

The doctor needs to know: should they proceed with a surgery that might extend her life but leave her permanently on a ventilator? Your brother thinks she'd want everything done. Your sister isn't sure. Nobody knows. The doctor is waiting.

Without a care plan

Family members disagree — and may never fully reconcile

Medical team acts on assumptions, not wishes

The decision haunts whoever made it

Hospital defaults to legal next-of-kin, not the person she trusted

With CareGoals

She documented her wishes eight months ago

She said: comfort over machines if there's no real hope of recovery

Her proxy — the person she chose — can speak with confidence

There's no argument. There's just love.

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Why families start

The conversations that matter most

"We kept putting it off. After a health scare, we realized we had no idea what Mom actually wanted — and she didn't know how to bring it up either."

A common reason families begin

"My father was the tough, don't-talk-about-it type. A structured conversation with the right questions opened up things that 20 years of family dinners hadn't."

What families tell us about the process

"I didn't want my kids arguing about me someday. Documenting my preferences — in my own words — gave them clarity and gave me peace of mind."

The goal most people share

These reflect the reasons people commonly begin advance care planning conversations — not attributed testimonials.

What you actually get

A real document. One your family and care team can actually use.

Care Summary
Dorothy W.
Boulder, CO · Last updated March 2026
What matters most to me

"Staying in my own home as long as safely possible. Morning walks. Family dinners on Sundays. Being treated with dignity."

Medical preferences

Comfort-focused care if meaningful recovery is unlikely. No ventilator if no realistic chance of independent life.

If I can't speak for myself

Healthcare proxy: Sarah W. (daughter)
Secondary: Michael W. (son)

Daily life preferences

Outdoors daily if possible. Jazz music. Privacy during personal care.

This summary is generated from your Sage conversations. Printable as a one-page PDF for any provider.

CareGoals is included in co-op.care membership.

CareGoals is free to use on its own. If your family is navigating aging, recovery, or home care decisions, a co-op.care membership ($59/mo) includes CareGoals, a dedicated care guide, and access to worker-owned companion care in Colorado. The goals conversation you have here travels with you into the co-op.care care plan.

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One question to ask tonight.

Advance care planning researchers have found that these six questions — asked in any order, in any conversation — open the door more reliably than any form or framework. Ask one tonight.

Questions adapted from research by Ariadne Labs (Serious Illness Conversation Guide), The Conversation Project, and Bernacki & Block, JAMA Intern Med. 2014. Tap the card to cycle, or it advances every 8 seconds.

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Sage will interview you. About 20 minutes. No preparation needed. Your answers build your advance directive.

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This tool supports conversations — it is not a legal document or medical advice. A care summary generated by CareGoals does not constitute an advance directive, POLST, healthcare power of attorney, or any other legally binding instrument. Consult a licensed attorney for formal advance directive documents and a physician for clinical guidance.